Category Archives: Christmas & Lent

News from the Service Commission’s Christmas & Lent program

Help Make Christmas Wishes Come True…

Christmas Wish and TreeSome children wish upon a star. This year, about 400 children will wish upon the caring generosity of our parish community through the St. John Christmas Wish program, started by Fr. Tom in 1993 when he first came to the Parish. Needed clothing and a special Christmas wish gift will go to youngsters in our own parish and in parishes in Roxbury, Lowell and Brockton.  You can help make wishes come true by:

Sponsoring a child or family fulfilling specifically desired clothing and gift requests
Helping us shop for children who have not been matched with sponsors
Making a financial donation to be used to purchase clothing or gifts

Christmas Wish invitations with Helper and Applicant forms were mailed to all parishioners. Paper forms and checks can be returned to the Rectory Office. (Forms should be returned as soon as possible, but it is never too late to help!)  If you prefer, you can click the link below to visit our online sign-up page:

Christmas Wish Sign-Up

Donations can also be made online via ParishPay, St. John’s online giving program (you do not need to be a regular ParishPay user – anyone can use ParishPay to make a one-time donation to Christmas Wish):

ParishPay

Questions? Please contact Liz Corcoran (efcorcoran@aol.com) or Sarah Connolly at the Rectory (stjohnwellesley@stjohnwellesley.org or 781-235-0045)

Our Advent Gift: Birthing Kit Collection for Haiti Marycare – December 13-14.

ServeHaiti-newborn-300x199St. John’s Service Commission has come to know about the extraordinary work of Haiti Marycare. Now, during this Advent season, our Service Commission again invites us, as a Parish, to assist in supplying “Safe Birth Kits” as a way to reduce the mortality rate for mothers and newborns in Haiti.  For many years, since making these “Safe Birth Kits” available in the village of Jacquesyl, no mothers or babies have died during childbirth. If you would like to help, please prepare one or more kits with the items listed below and bring to our collection on December 13-14.

To prepare a Safe Birth Kit, place the following items in a gallon-size Ziplock bag:

  • One receiving blanket
  • One large wrapped bar of soap (any brand)
  • Two pieces of string, each approximately 8” in length, placed in an envelope

Safe Birth Kits will be received at our Glen Road entrance to Church during the weekend of December 13-14.

Financial donations are also welcome to complete the kits with medical supplies and to defray shipping costs. (Checks can be made payable to St. John Parish – please note Haiti Marycare in the memo.)

The Safe Birth Kits will be completed and assembled for transport after Christmas – please let us know if you would like to help.

Contacts: Andrea Reilly or Barbara Pyles, Parish Service Commission
Email: SC@stjohnwellesley.org
Haiti Marycarewww.HaitiMarycare.org

Lespwa fe‘ viv (Hope makes us live)

– Haitian proverb

Christmas Wish Kicks Off This Week – Help Make Wishes Come True…

Christmas Wish and TreeSome children wish upon a star. This year, about 400 children will wish upon the caring generosity of our parish community through the St. John Christmas Wish program, started by Fr. Tom in 1993 when he first came to the Parish. Needed clothing and a special Christmas wish gift will go to youngsters in our own parish and in parishes in Roxbury, Lowell and Brockton.  You can help make wishes come true by:

Sponsoring a child or family fulfilling specifically desired clothing and gift requests
Helping us shop for children who have not been matched with sponsors
Making a financial donation to be used to purchase clothing or gifts

Christmas Wish invitations with Helper and Applicant forms were mailed to all parishioners this week. Paper forms and checks can be returned to the Rectory Office. (Forms should be returned as soon as possible or by Sunday, November 16.)  If you prefer, you can click the link below to visit our online sign-up page:

Christmas Wish Sign-Up

Donations can also be made online via ParishPay, St. John’s online giving program (you do not need to be a regular ParishPay user – anyone can use ParishPay to make a one-time donation to Christmas Wish):

ParishPay

If you find your family needs assistance this holiday season, you are invited to complete a confidential Applicant form and return it to the Rectory Office.

Questions? Please contact Liz Corcoran (efcorcoran@aol.com) or Sarah Connolly at the Rectory (stjohnwellesley@stjohnwellesley.org or 781-235-0045)

Parish Service Commission Announcement: Our Lenten Gift to Bishop Nestor

For many years, St. John’s Parish has made the decision to reach out to one particular suffering amid so many in the world. As you know, our 2014 Lenten Gift was for the Central African Republic (CAR) to Bishop Nestor, a priest of the Society of Missionaries of Africa. Long after Lent ended, our parishioners kept responding. Now we have sent our completed gift to Bishop Nestor.  It is our great joy to tell you the extraordinary news that the amount of our Lenten Gift was $34,800 sent to Bishop Nestor’s Diocesan bank account in France. Bishop Nestor will have the discretion to use our gift to meet immediate needs (food, shelter and medical supplies) as well as long term rebuilding. How blessed are we to be able to so share our gifts! Thank you one and all!

The situation in the Central African Republic continues to be dangerous and unsettled, even as displaced families begin the long and arduous process of returning to their homes, farms and lives, and as the Church begins to rebuild. During Easter Week, Bishop Nestor and three of his priests were briefly kidnapped by Seleka rebels who planned to execute them; they were freed unharmed on Holy Thursday after one of the Seleka commanding officers, described  by Bishop Nestor as “a good man with a good conscience,” ordered that they be released.  You can read more about this incident on the CAR News and Resources page on our website, which we continue to update with news from CAR and  Bishop Nestor. 

A letter from St. John’s Service Commission to Bishop Nestor

Hello Bishop Nestor,

Bishop_Nestor_Only_RescuedGreetings and warmest regards from St. John’s Parish in Wellesley, MA. My name is Jim Miller and I am one of the members of the St. John’s Service Commission. You may recall that we emailed each other this past February. I am now writing this email to update you on St. John’s Lenten Gift effort. You and your diocese have been and remain in our thoughts and prayers. As you know, St. John’s Parish has used the season of Lent to direct our prayers and almsgiving to the people of the CAR. Specifically, we have been praying for solutions to the suffering and political unrest in our Prayers of the Faithful at each Mass during Lent. Additionally, each St. John’s religious education class has been opening class with a special prayer for the children and people of your diocese. Lastly, we have taken a special Lenten gift collection which will be donated to you for the aid and support of the people in your diocese.

Please know that many parishioners and the staff at St. John’s remember you well and feel a special spiritual connection with you and your people. The St. John’s Service Commission worked hard to educated our parishioners on the human suffering and political unrest in CAR and more specifically on your situation in the diocese of Bossangoa. We emphasized your desire to restore hope, give people back their dignity, offer reassurance and stress self-responsibility so people can return to their villages and rebuild their lives. Through the Grace of the Holy Spirit and because you are well known to us and your needs are so great and compelling, St. John’s parishioners have raised just over $30,000 to be given to you to address the needs of the diocese.

Fr. Tom will be contacting you over the next several days to communicate the final amount of the Lenten gift and discuss money transfer and the use of proceeds. We feel so blessed to offer our assistance. We pray that it will greatly assist you in your mission of restoring hope, rebuilding physical assets, restarting lives and returning people their dignity. Our best wishes to you
and all the people of your diocese for a blessed Easter Sunday and Easter season!

Sincerely,

Jim Miller & the entire St. John’s Service Commission

Our Lenten Gift Update

Thank you so much for your support of this year’s 2014 Lenten Gift for Bishop Nestor and the people of the Central African Republic. The final collection totaled just over $30,000 and resulted from big and small donations from so many parishioners as well as various CCD classes. This collection will go a long way to help Bishop Nestor give people back their hope and personal dignity as they restore property and rebuild their lives. Thank you for being a true witness to Christ’s love by giving of yourself to people you don’t even know because you have chosen to “love one another as I have loved you.” John 13:34.

Christ has no body but yours,
No hands, no feet on Earth but yours,
Yours are the eyes with which he looks Compassion on this world.
— St. Theresa of Avila

THANK YOU!

Our Parish Lenten Gift
Supporting Bishop Nestor and the Diocese of Bossangoa, Central African Republic

Bishop Nestor with displaced families at the Archdiocesan compound.

Bishop Nestor with displaced families at the archdiocesan compound.

With our Parish Lenten Gift,  the St. John’s community will collectively make an impact on the Central African Republic, where tens of thousands of innocent men, women, and children are suffering from hunger, disease and lack of security after being displaced from their homes by warring rebels and local militia groups.  In solidarity with Bishop Nestor, we will collect funds to help the people of the Diocese of Bossangoa restart their lives. We at St. John’s have this opportunity to alleviate great suffering through our unique relationship with Bishop Nestor and the Catholic Church, the only institution still functioning across the CAR.

In the Words of Bishop Nestor

While the needs are great, Bishop Nestor says, “We have learned to cut our coat according to our materials…  We thank God for what we have already received and thank the parishioners of St. John’s in advance for their support and help offered to my diocese.”

Bishop Nestor’s efforts are focused on giving people hope and returning their human dignity. Bishop Nestor plans to use the funds for the most immediate needs:

  • Helping people rehabilitate their burnt houses
Burned down village on way to Bossangoa (Photo: Valerie Kaye/Caritas)

Burned down village on way to Bossangoa

  • Helping people to restart new farms
  • Equipping people with nonfood items
  • Feeding the hungry
Children take refuge in Catholic mission in Bossangoa last November(Courtesy Caritas Internationalis)

Children take refuge in Catholic mission in Bossangoa 

Pope Francis’ Call

Additionally, this gift aligns with Pope Francis’ call for Catholics to better focus on helping the poor and those living on the fringe.

Small yet strong in the love of God, like Saint Francis of Assisi,
all of us, as Christians, are called to watch over and protect the fragile world in which we live, and all its peoples.

–Pope Francis

Our Action

We have been praying for the people in CAR through our Prayers of the Faithful during Lent.  It is now time to offer our financial support. Please be as generous as you can.

By Mail: Donations can be mailed to the Rectory or dropped off weekdays during regular business hours.

To Donate Online via ParishPay:  Click this link and choose 2014 Lenten Gift under One-Time Donations (Please Note: you do not need to be a regular ParishPay user to donate online – anyone can make a secure, one-time donation with a credit card.)

To learn more about Bishop Nestor’s efforts and the ongoing crisis Central African Republic, please visit the 2014 Parish Lenten Gift page  where you will find the story in words and pictures, personal reflections on Bishop Nestor from parishioners, as well as many additional links and resources.

Special Collection Our Lenten Gift
Supporting Bishop Nestor and the Diocese of Bossangoa, Central African Republic

LentenGift2014_LogoThis weekend, April 5-6, the St. John’s community will collectively make an impact on the Central African Republic, where tens of thousands of innocent men, women, and children are suffering from hunger, disease and lack of security after being displaced from their homes by warring rebels and local militia groups.  In solidarity with Bishop Nestor, we will collect funds to help the people of the Diocese of Bossangoa restart their lives. We at St. John’s have this opportunity to alleviate great suffering through our unique relationship with Bishop Nestor and the Catholic Church, the only institution still functioning across the CAR.

In the Words of Bishop Nestor

While the needs are great, Bishop Nestor says, “We have learned to cut our coat according to our materials…  We thank God for what we have already received and thank the parishioners of St. John’s in advance for their support and help offered to my diocese.”

Bishop Nestor’s efforts are focused on giving people hope and returning their human dignity. Bishop Nestor plans to use the funds for the most immediate needs:

  • Helping people rehabilitate their burnt houses
Burned down village on way to Bossangoa (Photo: Valerie Kaye/Caritas)

Burned down village on way to Bossangoa

  • Helping people to restart new farms
  • Equipping people with nonfood items
  • Feeding the hungry
Children take refuge in Catholic mission in Bossangoa last November(Courtesy Caritas Internationalis)

Children take refuge in Catholic mission in Bossangoa 

Pope Francis’ Call

Additionally, this gift aligns with Pope Francis’ call for Catholics to better focus on helping the poor and those living on the fringe.

Small yet strong in the love of God, like Saint Francis of Assisi,
all of us, as Christians, are called to watch over and protect the fragile world in which we live, and all its peoples.

–Pope Francis

Our Action

We have been praying for the people in CAR through our Prayers of the Faithful during Lent.  It is now time to offer our financial support. Please be as generous as you can.

At Masses this Weekend: Please give generously to our Special Second Collection at all masses during the weekend of April 5-6. (Checks can be made payable to “St. John Parish”; we will total all funds and send one check to Bishop Nestor.)

Donations will be accepted by mail and Parish Pay beyond this weekend.

By Mail: Donations can be mailed to the Rectory or dropped off weekdays during regular business hours.

To Donate Online via ParishPay:  Click this link and choose 2014 Lenten Gift under One-Time Donations (Please Note: you do not need to be a regular ParishPay user to donate online – anyone can make a secure, one-time donation with a credit card.)

To learn more about Bishop Nestor’s efforts and the ongoing crisis Central African Republic, please visit the 2014 Parish Lenten Gift page  where you will find the story in words and pictures, personal reflections on Bishop Nestor from parishioners, as well as many additional links and resources.

Our 2014 Parish Lenten Gift to Central African Republic: Introducing Bishop Nestor Désiré NONGO-AZIAGBIA, SMA

Do You Remember Him at St. John’s?

Fr Nestor_CrossIn the summer of 2006, Father Nestor spent a month at St. John Parish as a visiting priest from the Society of African Missions (SMA). While he was only in our Parish a short time, he made strong connections with several parishioners and they remain in touch. Below are selected quotes from parishioners who wrote letters reflecting on their time spent with Father Nestor (please visit Fr. Nestor: Personal Reflections from Parishioners on our website to read the letters.)

“He was outgoing, personable, pastoral, energetic and curious. He wanted to know everyone and experience everything. He was a tall, elegant man and often spotted around Wellesley wearing the
most colorful African-style shirt.”

–Julie and Frank McConville

“I recall introducing Father Nestor to the mayor of Newton, Setti Warren. They had a wonderful chat and Father Nestor later quizzed me at length about how the city was run, how leaders were
chosen and how decisions made.”

–John Stewart

Bishop Nestor Today

Most Rev. Dr. Nestor Désiré NONGO AZIAGBIA SMA, age 44, was appointed Bishop of Bossangoa, Central African Republic, in May 2012.

Imagine his responsibility as Bishop to over 350,000 people living in a country where the government has no power, basic services like healthcare and education have collapsed, and there is no rule of law and no police. In this situation of chaos, the Catholic Church stands as virtually the only national institution that still functions. Bishop Nestor and his staff are organizing care for as many as 35,000 people, mostly woman and children, on the 40-acre diocesan compound, the only safe haven to escape the violence.

Bishop Nestor’s Words:
“They have suffered the worst: rape, assassination and murder, kidnapping and ransom demands,
destruction of property, the theft of cows, destruction of farmland, the burning of houses.”

“Action needs to be taken fast before it is too late.”

·“We need to give back to the people what they have lost. Their goods, their dignity, and allow them to be
free from fear. We need to give them reasons for hope and for walking again with their head up high.
We give faith and hope, but in the case of Bossangoa, charity has to be shown and fast.”

“We have to keep reassuring the people. In fact they are to be responsible for their own lives. I stress this
aspect of self-responsibility.”

Our Response?

We parishioners of St. John’s find ourselves with a unique opportunity to know one of the few people in the chaos of the CAR who can actually provide food, shelter and security for those displaced and can advocate for peace. In next week’s bulletin we will describe how our Lenten Gift Special Collection on April 5-6 will be offered to Bishop Nestor for restoration of church buildings and to help give people their dignity back: to rehabilitate burnt houses, to help re-start farms, to provide Non-Food Items (NFI) and to feed the hungry.

For more information, please the 2014 Parish Lenten Gift page on our website. 

2014 Lenten Gift: Central African Republic – Background to Current Crisis

Map_AfricaThe Central African Republic (CAR), a land locked region in Central Africa, is home to 4.6 million people and is about the size of Texas. Its population is composed of 85 % Christians and 12 % Muslims. Since its independence from France in 1960, the CAR has been politically unstable and state authority is weak in many areas of the country. It has been ruled by a series of military coup leaders and politicians who have depleted natural resources for their own benefit and neglected the needs of its people. Life expectancy is only 49 years of age and the mean average years of education is a mere 3.5.

The most recent stage of unrest started in December 2012 when an alliance of forces, the rebel group Seleka, overthrew the democratically elected President and seized large parts of the country. The Seleka militia are largely foreign mercenaries from Chad and Sudan. They are an occupying force that has violently attacked homes, schools and places of worship, often targeting Christian communities. In the CAR Christians and Muslims have always enjoyed good relations – but now Christian militia are being set up for self protection and the outsiders are stirring up a local divide.

According to the United Nations, the fighting has internally displaced approximately 15% of the population and 300,000 civilians have fled to neighboring countries. Both Amnesty International and Doctors without Borders report that its staff has witnessed killings of civilians and the destruction of medical facilities in CAR’s capital, Bangui.

Presently there are 6,000 African troops and 2,000 French troops on the ground in the CAR. Their intention is to make cities safe and to also protect civilians living in the bush, where they have been hiding in fear for their lives. The United Nations Security Council is debating ramping up this force to a 12,000 strong peacekeeping unit to protect civilians and eventually add civilian specialists to rebuild state institutions.

Currently the CAR has no institutions that can deliver basic services and no capacity to stop the violence. The United Nations estimates that 50% of the population is in need of aid. The local fighting, mass displacement and economic collapse have disrupted the agricultural planting and harvesting season. There is a looming food crisis and many are on the brink of starvation. The World Food Program estimates over 1 million people face “serious food insecurity”. Also millions of people could be at risk of communicable diseases with the upcoming rainy season. With worsening sectarian violence, the UN Secretary General Ban Ki-moon is concerned that the unrest could spiral into genocide. Just this week the UN called the situation “extremely grave” and urged for immediate action to avoid a worsening crisis. As Fr. Nestor writes in his email message:

Children_CatholicMission_Bossangoa“The crisis has thrown almost everybody in the street, rather into the bush. People are living like animals; they completely lost their dignity. In that regard, the needs we are faced with are many and huge:

a. helping the people to rehabilitate their burnt houses;
b. helping the people to start new farms;
c. equipping the people with NFIs (Non Food Items);
d. assisting the people with food.”

In this situation of chaos the Catholic Church stands as the only national institution that is still operating and serving the needs of the people.