Category Archives: Christmas & Lent

News from the Service Commission’s Christmas & Lent program

Introducing Our 2014 Parish Lenten Gift – Central African Republic

For many years in preparing for Lent, St. John’s parish has made the decision to reach out to one particular suffering amid so many in the world.  During this season of prayer and giving, our parish has a rich history of sacrificial giving.   Last year’s gift was to the parish of St. Margaret Mary on Staten Island, NY for Super Storm Sandy rebuilding.  Previous gifts were for famine relief in East Africa and rebuilding and medical supplies in earthquake devastated Haiti.  Our Lenten Gift strengthens each of us individually and the parish as a community of faith, as we give witness to Christ’s call to “Love one another as I have loved you” (John 13:34). Lent’s clarion call to love extravagantly is what Lent is about.

Why Central African Republic?

  • St. John’s parishioners connect with causes with great needs or suffering where we can provide relief.
  • The Central African Republic (CAR) gift helps to relieve great need for shelter, food and basic materials to “restart” the lives of the thousands who suffer from hunger, disease and insecurity from being displaced from their homes due to civil unrest.
  • Fr Nestor NongoSt. John’s personally knows Bishop Nestor-Désiré Nongo Aziagbia of Bossangoa. He is a priest of the Society of Missionaries of Africa (SMA) who was in residence at St. John’s in summer of 2006 while attending Boston College for a master’s degree.  Reverend Fr. Tom Powers has remained in contact with Nestor as he returned to his country as a pastor and now as the Bishop of Bossangoa.  Bishop Nestor has testified at the United Nations and the US House Subcommittee on Africa.
  • This project, so far away from Wellesley and to benefit those we will never know, seems to perfectly fit with Pope Francis call for practicing Catholics to realize the grace they have been given and accept responsibility for helping others experience the same grace — especially the poor, the sick and others left on the peripheries or margins of society.

What is the Central African Republic?

The CAR, located in the middle of Africa, gained its independence from France in 1960.  The country has a population of approximately 4.5 million, is about the size of Texas and has an average annual income of $800 (one of the poorest countries in the world).  The CAR was democratically ruled from 1993 until 2003 when there was a military coup.  The government has been marked by corruption, human rights violations and outside country interference.  The most recent instability commenced in December 2012 when political rebels, the Selekas, a coalition of rebel Muslim groups as well as mercenaries from neighboring Chad and Sudan, used force to overturn the government and installed their own President. The brutality of the Selekas who destroyed and stole property, killed, abused and tortured civilians gave rise to a large opposition group, Antibabalaka, a local militia groups who identify themselves with the Christians and have committed similar atrocities as the Selekas.

Families_CatholicMission_BossangoaChristian and Muslim church leaders describe the conflict as political and not religious as each group seeks power and control over the country’s significant mineral and natural resources.  Newspaper reports put the number of displaced people at over 1.1 million with Bishop Nestor housing and feeding up to 30,000 people on the church grounds.  Violence has been somewhat reduced recently as France deployed 1,500 peacekeepers which joined 5,000 African Union peacekeepers. However, this large country remains a very unsettled environment with great need.

This Year’s Gift

We will offering our support to Bishop Nestor and the people of his diocese through Prayer (Petitions of the Faithful and in CCD classes) and a Lenten Gift collection on April 5/6.  Proceeds will be transferred to Bishop Nestor safely through his diocese bank account in France.  Bishop Nestor will have the discretion to use proceeds to meet immediate needs (food, shelter and medical supplies) as well as long term needs (rebuilding the church and homes) since he is in a fluid situation with such great needs.

How blessed we are to be able to act on Pope Francis’ message to use the grace we have been given to help others attempting to gain hope in rebuilding.

You can find more information on our 2014 Lenten Gift, Bishop Nestor, the Diocese of Bossangoa, and the Central African Republic on our website: Our 2014 Parish Lenten Gift: The Central African Republic

Next Week’s bulletin: Look for additional information on the Central African Republic and the needs.

A Thank You Letter from a Christmas Wish Family

Christmas Wish and TreeBelow is a letter St. John Parish received this week from one of the many people who were helped by the Christmas Wish Program this season.

Hi – My name is Yvette. I am part of a family in which your parish helped with gifts this season. I know these things are given anonymously and it’s OK. I understand! But I wanted to thank all of you, on behalf of myself, my family and every family ever helped along the way.

I wanted to say that knowing that someone out in this world has taken their time and love to share what they have with my family is the greatest gift ever! Just knowing that someone cares is enough. It’s beautiful! It is what Christmas is all about “The birth of our Lord brought joy, love and peace,” and that’s what you’re doing by helping others.

It warms my heart to know someone else besides me cares and loves my children and wants us to have a nice Christmas. Thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart, for sharing your blessings with us. May the Lord bless you and yours Have a wonderful Christmas! Know you are loved and appreciated.

– Mom, Yvette

Christmas Wish Thank You to all of our St. John Community

Christmas_Thank YouThe Christmas Wish 2013 Committee would like to thank each one of you that generously donated time, contributions, shopping efforts, coordination of parish family needs, data entry, attending meetings, bundling packages, matching gifts to families, and many tireless efforts to make Christmas. We worked with 152 families and over 400 children in St. Patrick’s in Brockton, St Patrick’s in Lowell, St Katharine Drexel in Roxbury, Julie’s Family Learning Program in South Boston, and St. John the Evangelist in Wellesley to provide gifts of clothing, toys, special gift wishes, and even food cards to make the holiday special for so many.

Over 240 St. John families helped with this effort by family sponsorship, shopping, financial donations, program co-ordination, religious ed community service, and gift delivery. We extend a special thanks to McCabe Movers for their donation of the truck for gift delivery again this year. We thank Bill Logan and Steve DuFour for volunteering to deliver the gifts to Lowell and Roxbury, joined by Steve’s son. We would also like to thank our committee of Kathy Maher, Christine Kehoe, Becky Kannam, Paula Gomez, Peg Tally, Corinne Spinale, Pat Colton, Alyson Karpowicz, Joyce Farah, Donna Buckley, Liz Corcoran, Susan Logan, Patti DuFour, Denise Brown, Deidre O’Kelly-Lynch, Beata Pearson, Sally Miller, Maureen Newman, Mary Cagliuso and the Parish Office Staff.

We welcome all parishioners to join us next year in this heartwarming holiday effort of the 2014 Christmas Wish Program.

Christmas Wish – It’s Not Too Late!

Christmas Wish and TreePlease consider participating in this year’s Christmas Wish Program. Your involvement means a great deal to over 400 children who depend on our community’s generosity and kindness to help them receive needed clothing and a special Christmas Wish gift. We invite you to participate by:

* Sponsoring a family or child (fulfilling their desired clothing and gift requests) * Donating to the program * Helping us shop for children who have not been matched with sponsors * Helping with gift preparation

Please visit our Christmas Wish page today for more information and to sign up to help and/or make a donation online. Paper forms and contributions should be returned to the Rectory Office as soon as possible, but please know that it is never to late to get involved! Thank you in advance for your kindness!

We also invite you to complete an applicant form, if you find that your family needs assistance this holiday season. Please call the Rectory with any questions 781-235-0045.

For more information: Please contact us:
Liz Corcoran (efcorcoran@aol.com) or Sarah Connolly at the Rectory (stjohnwellesley@stjohnwellesley.org)

Christmas Wish Kicks Off This Week!

Christmas Wish and TreeThe St. John Christmas Wish Program kicks off this week! Please check your mailbox for an invitation to participate in this year’s Christmas Wish Program. Your involvement means a great deal to over 400 children who depend on our community’s generosity and kindness to help them receive needed clothing and a special Christmas Wish gift. We invite you to participate by sponsoring a family or child (fulfilling their desired clothing and gift requests), donating to the program, helping us shop for children who have not been matched with sponsors, or helping with gift preparation. We also invite you to complete an applicant form, if you find that your family needs assistance this holiday season.

You can also donate on line or sign up to participate on our Christmas Wish page.  Thank you in advance for your kindness! Any questions, please contact us: Liz Corcoran (efcorcoran@aol.com) or Sarah Connolly at the Rectory (stjohnwellesley@stjohnwellesley.org).

From the Service Commission: 2013 Lenten Gift Update and Thank You

Final1_CroppedThank you so much for your support of this year’s Parish Lenten Gift: Rebuilding in Faith – Supporting St. Margaret Mary Parish, Staten Island, NY.  The final collection totaled $26,672 and resulted from big and small donations from so many parishioners as well as various Religious Education classes. The check was personally delivered by a Service Commission member who met the parish staff of St. Margaret Mary, visited the church and toured the Midlands Beach area of Staten Island. The St. Margaret Mary Disaster Relief Fund has chosen to help the family of four featured in one of our Lenten bulletin messages (please see thank you note below). Thank you for being a true witness to Christ’s love by giving of yourself to people you don’t even know, because you have chosen to “love one another as I have loved you” John 13:34.

Christ has no body but yours, no hands, no feet on Earth but yours,
Yours are the eyes with which he looks with compassion on this world.
St. Theresa of Avila

***A letter from Bob Dennis, St. Margaret Mary Parish Manager***

My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Faith,

It is difficult to put into words the feelings we have that would adequately express our overwhelming sense of gratitude for the people of St John the Evangelist. Through the generosity of your parish you will make a substantial difference in the life of Carl (a NYC Policeman), his wife Marilyn, a daughter Alivia (who has Crohn’s Disease) and his son Carl Jr., parishioners of St. Margaret Mary. The 2 bedroom bungalow they shared was so damaged that everything, except a new bathroom they put in a year ago, has to be replaced – all interior walls, floors, ceilings furniture and personal belongings have been either lost or damaged. The piles of rubble outside his home remain as testament to the damage caused by Sandy.

Carl helped his neighbors and strangers to escape the quickly rising water, at the cost of his own personal property. Jim Miller from your parish was gracious enough to come to Staten Island and see Carl’s house and hear his story, again thank you for taking the time to do that. It was my great pleasure to show you around.

You will always be in our prayers,

Bob Dennis, Parish Manager

Parish Lenten Gift – Special Collection March 16-17

Rebuilding in Faith – Supporting St. Margaret Mary’s Parish After Hurricane Sandy’s Destruction

Last Week_Graphic1Last Week_Graphic2 On the weekend of March 16-17, St. John’s community will collectively make an impact on the Midland Beach, Staten Island community, five months after Storm Sandy, they are still in the process of rebuilding their homes and normalizing their lives. This year, in solidarity with the staff and people of St. Margaret Mary Parish, we will collect funds to help rebuild homes of this community.  The parishioners suffered the full brunt of the storm as their homes were severely damaged by the storm surge and resulting flood due to their location on the island’s east coast. City officials estimate that 300 homes are still without power or heat, and another 200 homes are classified as uninhabitable because they were destroyed or rendered structurally unsound.

Our gift can allow a few families to stop living “on-hold” and make their houses into homes again.  A typical rebuilding effort to get a family back in their home with just the basics includes:

  • $3,500-$4,000 – Building Materials
  • $4,000 – Systems/Appliances
  • $2,000 – Furniture

Lent’s clarion call – to love extravagantly! As part of our Parish’s 2013 Lenten call Rebuild in Faith, let’s bring the warmth and love of our parish and homes to those attempting to Rebuild in Faith.  We ask that you be as generous as you can as we designate our second collection to this purpose.  (Checks may be made payable to “St. John Parish”; St. John’s will total all funds and send one check to St. Margaret Mary Parish.) You can also donate online via ParishPay – choose 2013 Lenten Gift under One-Time Donations. (Please Note: you do not need to have an account with ParishPay to donate online – anyone can make a secure, one-time donation with a credit card.)

A Midland Beach Christmas Concert of Hope and Inspiration

SlideshowA message and video from our friends at St. Margaret Mary Parish: On Saturday, December 8th, 2012 the parish of St. Margaret Mary and the neighborhood churches of Midland Beach sang together as one at a Christmas concert of hope and inspiration. The concert brought light and joy to the overflow crowd and Christmas spirits were brightened for our Sandy-ravaged community.  One highlight of the event was a slideshow presentation during the singing of “You’ll Never Walk Alone” highlighting the experiences, pain, suffering, volunteerism and resolute spirit of the people of Midland Beach. Click the play button below to view.

 

 

Our 2013 Lenten Gift: Rebuilding in Faith – Supporting St. Margaret Mary Parish, Staten Island

Rebuilding in Faith_Logo_LargeWeek 4: The Need  St. Margaret Mary Parish relief efforts are focused on helping families, like the Rodriguez family who were introduced in last week’s bulletin, to secure supplies to help rebuild “houses” and make them “homes.” Volunteers from both inside and the outside the parish community are volunteering their labor but the basic cost of materials and equipment still need to be covered. A typical rebuilding effort to get a family back in their home with just the basics includes:

$3,500-$4,000 for Materials
$4,000 for Systems/Appliances
$2,500 Furniture
Expenses are already tight for many Midland Beach residents like the Rodriguez family without factoring in a natural disaster. A few thousand dollars of assistance can close the gap between the cost to rebuild and any insurance and FEMA benefits. Our gift can allow this family of four to stop living “on-hold”, and make their house into a home. A home because with the basic appliances the family can now eat and sleep, laugh and cry, and pray and live together.

Our Outreach

During Lent we follow Catholic tradition by turning toward God through prayer, fasting and charity with the knowledge that God has chosen to enter the world today through us and others. In fact, God only asks us for only one thing and that is Love.  Let’s show our Love for Christ and compassion for the residents of Midland Beach and St. Margaret Mary Parish on Staten Island in both spiritual and concrete ways. First, these families need our prayers as they engage in the struggle to rebuild not just their homes but also their lives. Second, let’s donate to St. Margaret Mary Parish’s rebuilding fund which augments recipients’ available funds to reframe houses and rooms and help buy appliances such as stoves, ovens and refrigerators. In essence, our gift will enable these families to “help themselves” rebuild their homes and lives. Please consider a prayerful and generous donation to our 2013 Lenten Gift collection, next week Saturday, March 16th and Sunday, March 17th.

We are reminded in St. Theresa of Avila’s beautiful prayer which we also sing here at St. John’s, that we are Christ’s body:

Christ has no body but yours,
No hands, no feet on Earth but yours,
Yours are the eyes with which he looks
Compassion on this world.

Our 2013 Lenten Gift: Rebuilding in Faith – Supporting St. Margaret Mary Parish, Staten Island

Week 3: The Rebuilding Effort

As the storm devastation became clear, the reality that the families of Staten Island needed major support became obvious. St. Margaret Mary Parish stepped forward in service by distributing $500 gift cards to parishioners provided by the Archdiocese of New York, starting a relief fund and creating a food bank as residents looked to friends and relatives to provide shelter. Strong early donations of approximately $215,000 went quickly in the days immediately following the storm as families looked to get resettled.

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Volunteers remove ruined furnishings and appliances from a home in Midland Beach.

The “rip out” stage of the rebuilding effort progressed swiftly in this community of teachers, fire fighters, police, many with the skills to make repairs.

Volunteer removing damaged walls, ceilings, floors, and insulation.

Volunteer laborers by the hundreds and donations of tools and supplies came from services organizations from all over the area. St. Margaret Mary provided organization and administrative support coordinating the donations and recycling the tools and supplies. Now, however, the costly rebuilding stage starts and the unsettling realization that insurance covers only a fraction of the basics.

One Family’s Struggle

Let’s look at this rebuilding phase through the experiences of the “Rodriguez” family (not the actual family’s name), a family of four, occupying two small homes on one lot of property. The property, located near Gateway National Park, has never had any problems with water and therefore no flood insurance was required or taken on the property. Originally the maternal grandmother lived in the smaller of the two homes until her death two years ago. The father is a New York City police officer, the mother is a homemaker and the two children include an 18 year old daughter with Crohn’s Disease and a 15 year old son. The night Sandy struck, Mr. Rodriguez was on duty but left his car for the family in case they needed to evacuate; however, the storm came so quickly they were unable to get out. Their car was totaled as the sea engulfed everything. Mom, son and daughter took refuge in the attic for safety.

Mud and waste left the house with  extensive damage.

Mud and waste left extensive damage.

When the water receded they were able to come down to find everything covered in mud and sand, with all personal items drenched in a mix of sewer and sea water. Their car sat upside down having been swept by the storm surge.

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The home after the damaged floors and walls were removed.

Upon inspection, Mr. Rodriguez realized his house had shifted by the force of the water, causing a crack in the ceiling and in one of the walls. The damage to the small homes was extensive. Repairs just to regain occupancy included a new floor, new wallboard and insulation, new doors, as well as systems and appliances. FEMA has given the family $6,500 “for construction costs.” No other assistance is available as their homeowner’s insurance covers nothing as the damage is considered flood damage.

The Rodriquez story is not uncommon as hundreds of families in Midland Beach are left with limited and inadequate insurance and disaster relief.